Day 3: Realisations 

When I visited mum on the Saturday she was in a bad way. Her gut was totally blocked and so no food could get through.When mum was lucid and okay to talk she and I discussed the situation and she came to realise that any aggressive treatment wasn't going to help. So I called Steve, my brother and asked him to bring himself and dad into see mum so they could here what mum had to say.  Dad realised he was loosing mum.